You Not Need Always Right

Sometimes we always feel right and tend to attack people who blame us. Here are 5 things you need to have so that you do not stress yourself when you are in this condition.

1. Open
We did not always agree with each other, despite having tried for it. If anyone does not agree with us, that does not mean he is wrong, or you are wrong. If you are open, open to listening to their reasons, there is an opportunity to learn each other's opinions and ideas of each. If we do not
'stubborn' to be true, the level of communication we will go deep, want to hear, so that we can better understand the arguments of others, reducing resistance and judgment. Collection raises deep dialogue.

2. Humility
By pressing a little bit of our ego, then we will be able to handle yourself. For example, if we are proven wrong, just admit that we are wrong. No need to defend the ego and continues to sustain the argument that looks you remain true. Others will appreciate our humility that claim wrong.

3. Forgiveness
We often want to show to the people who have hurt us, how wrong they are to us. Instead, you focus on forgiveness. It is important to show that you are sick, but it will be much more forgiving touch the hearts of others rather than revenge.

4. Goodness
Ego only care about right and wrong. While we are concerned with the good heart. If you and others continue to fight each other to prove who is right and who is wrong, then there will be no end. Spread the good then you and others can speak from heart to heart, so that right and wrong are no longer the goal. Dialogue or discussion to exchange opinions will run with full of love.
(Tenni Purwanti)